Mind, Body, Kitchen and Books?

Posted on April 12, 2013 by Kantharith Tito Kang

Aloha Friend,

It started with my beautiful life partner Davi embarking upon a journey to reach the healthiest level she has ever reached. For those of you who know her, you will know she is not in bad shape. Nonetheless this worthy step into her journey has her very excited. She is a LoliPreneur, moving into her journey to transform who she is today.

In her quest, she has shared with me some really cool information. I must warn you, this information is nothing earth shattering. However how it is presented I found to be BAMDIGIOUS!

Told you it would not be earth shattering. It is not news that what happens in the kitchen feeds the body. So it is with our mind. This is the connection. What happens to our minds is what we feed it.

WHAT HAPPENS IN YOUR MIND KITCHEN?

Your mind is fed by the conversations you have, the books that you read and the TV that you watch. Those are the ingredients you work with. The conversations are affected by the people that surround you. And in our day and age, those conversations are not just live face to face but they extend to Texting, Facebook, Google+, Twitter, Blogs. Online and Offline.So what ingredients do you cook with in your mind kitchen? Are you feeding your mind to create the person you want to be? Are you cooking to create a master piece life?

Mind, Body, Kitchen and Books? How they all come together.

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ONLY YOU WILL KNOW

There is a way to find out.

3 Steps

Define who you want to become. Write on a piece of paper and stuff it in an envelope. One great way to complete this exercise is to ask yourself if the Times reporter came to interview your spouse, your best friend and your siblings 25 years from now; what would they say about your achievements, who you are and what you represent.
Monitor what you do Today. Over the next 7 days, diarize what you do every day in a 30 min segment.
Highlight the activities that lead to what The Times reporter would have written about YOU

A lot of my student have found it difficult to,track what they do over 7 days. Most last 3 to 4. If you desire TRUE Transformation, you must be prepared to DO and Face The Brutal Truth.

Will your Adversity make you BITTER or BETTER?

Posted on January 22, 2013 by Kantharith Tito Kang

Aloha Friend,

Happy New Year! Yes I am back with a Hiatus of 6 months plus.

I won’t delay today. This is the start of season 3. I plan to put 13 episodes in 3 season this year starting this week.

Yes. 2012 was PRODIGIOUS Year for me mentally, spiritually and financially. Now, I have been neglecting my blog on personal development. My purpose in life is to Help others achieve their dreams and I have been doing just that. If you have subscribed to my blog on the link to the right of this screen, you would have seen a great testimonial of one of my students. I love it to see another person whom I have been blessed enough to cross paths with and had the honor to participate in their success journey.

The purpose of this blog was to reach a larger group of individuals but the prospect of working closely with engaged LoliPreneur took more time than anticipated.

Aside from neglecting my blog, I have also neglected my Fitness balance. I stopped exercising as regularly as I used to. I stopped being as careful on what I ate. The result, I am now at 187lbs and about 19% body fat. Which brings me to today’s message.

Will adversity make you BITTER OR BETTER?

I have all the justification and excuses in the world to explain why and how time ran short for me to maintain my level of fitness balance from the beginning of 2012 when I weighed 178 and had 12% body fat. I could mention that I feel older and that I do not have the same stamina and energy.

All these ideas were running rampant in my mind and I had a field day laying on the couch. Yes, I did.

Than I heard a message from Michael Jordan.

“You are only a failure when you start making excuses”

OUCH! It hit home!

How can I stay authentic to my message of the 4 Pillars of a PRODIGIOUS Life?

So I re-read my blog and the lesson I got from my Grandfather: How to build your house of Success

Then I realized my 2012 life was Good but not Great. It was Excellent but Not PRODIGIOUS.

I had started down the path of FAILURE because I looked at excuses.

Differentiate between EXCUSES and SYMPTOMS

EXCUSES are things your mind makes up to tell you why you CAN’T.

SYMPTOMS are real results affected by your actions.

So here’s what I have done.

List all my EXCUSES
Translated them into SYMPTOMS
And replace the actions I took that yielded those SYMPTOMS TO ACTIONS that drive toward my vision

I invite you to do the same especially as you are going towards your success journey. Some of you might have set resolutions, others not. That really does not matter. The question is:

Are your actions congruent to your vision? Are they takingYOU on the Road of Success you have defined?

In my case they were not. Adversity is making me BETTER. I CHOOSE not to be BITTER and live in my world of EXCUSES.

I choose to be the VICTOR and no longer the VICTIM!

LIVE A BAMDIGIOUS LIFE!

TYPS!

Tito

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Why Belief in Abundance is essential to your Success Journey

Posted on September 27, 2012 by Kantharith Tito Kang

Aloha Friend,

Last week, I wrote that Burning Desire was essential to succeed then how come we see people who have a Burning Desire not succeed. What gets in the way of hard working human doings? Is there a missing ingredient? I have seen some very hard working people still not achieve their defined level of success. Today, I want to share my thoughts on what that missing ingredient might be. You might have heard that Belief is essential. However I do not think that it is belief alone but more importantly Belief in Abundance. Let me explain…

Roll The Vid

DO YOUR BEST AND MAKE PROGRESS!! – KTK

Aloha and Mahalo!

TYPS!!

Tito Kang

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What did Napoleon say about BURNING DESIRE.

Posted on September 21, 2012 by Kantharith Tito Kang

Aloha Friend,

What did Napoleon say? Not the Emperor but Napoleon Hill, author of Think And Grow Rich. I got engrossed in re-reading it. Like a my friend Jake says, I am studying it now, not just reading it. Excerpts and meanings are different now, I bet you they will be different in 5 years as well. Because we transform. Revisiting a book of this magnitude brings with it a transformed experience. I am glad I did. I discovered it differently and today as promised. I will share with you what Napoleon said about BURNING DESIRE.

ROLL THE VID……

DO YOUR BEST AND MAKE PROGRESS!! – KTK

Aloha and Mahalo!

TYPS!!

Tito Kang

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Some Of The Lessons from my Father

Posted on June 18, 2012 by Kantharith Tito Kang

Aloha Friend,

it is simple really for today. It was Father’s Day this past Sunday. As I continue to learn from my past, I realize how influential how my Dad was on me. How I love my wife? How I love my kids? How I love my community? My Dad dedicated his life to family, to his faith and to his community? My mom and him were of service when the community needed service from those who could lend a hand. Even with challenges and hardships, my siblings and I never felt any of it. We traveled the world, we saw places our friends in that time never had a chance to see. It was for the family, it was for the kids. My dad was an only child who grew up to be a man with the biggest of hearts and lotsa love to give. Building on the Foundation him and my mom laid for us is the greatest honor I have to thank him for who he is. Mahalo Nuy Loa Dad! …. Roll The Vid…

DO YOUR BEST AND MAKE PROGRESS!! – KTK

Aloha and Mahalo!

TYPS!!

Tito Kang

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How I maintain A Prodigious Attitude and a message for Mom.

Posted on May 14, 2012 by Kantharith Tito Kang

Aloha Friend,

Summer is getting closer. Told you that the sun will always shine behind those clouds. You just have to first believe and then let time do its magic. This week I got inspired to share with you some insights I got from some of the books I am reading. It gave me some key information to answer the questions some of you had on how I maintained a Prodigious Attitude. So here it goes… Roll The Vid

Yesterday was Happy Mother’s Day! Here is a message to the MOMS in my life. If you have not noticed yet. MOM upside down is WOW.

I would love to read what you think or hear from you. Leave us a comment. But until next time.

Do Your Best and Make Progress!!

TYPS!

Tito Kang

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Dreams Are Goals Without a Plan – What I learned with Seth Godin in Phoenix

Posted on April 23, 2012 by Kantharith Tito Kang

Aloha Friend,

I am back and on track. I just came back from Phoenix where I saw my friend Seth Godin. Now, let me be clear, I call everyone my friend if I have a chance to shake their hands and have a few personal words with them. Seth is so welcoming and loves to elevate the greatness in all of us. If you have not had the chance yet, check out his book Poke The Box.

He is so giving with his writing and he epitomizes and inspired my vlog today about putting value first. Roll The Vid…..

From Seth Godin Enter Caine’s Arcade

Aloha and Mahalo!!TYPS (To Your Prodigious Success!!)

Tito Kang

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How I learned that Faith Alone is not Enough.

Posted on April 9, 2012 by Kantharith Tito Kang

Aloha Friend,

this will be my last post in a series of four, sharing my thoughts on the Fear, Faith and Failure. Today, I would like to share in the spirit of this Easter how I have come to gain a deeper understanding about FAITH from my personal experiences in seeing what my Dad has shared with me in his FAITH. This Easter Monday Post is dedicated to my Dad, Narut Kang, born in the year of the Dragon. Hence the Dragon Egg above. He taught me the Power of Faith. Now you might not believe in his FAITH but I invite you to listen to the video because you will understand that FAITH is not about religion but about beliefs and that beliefs alone are not enough. Thoughts Start It All. Faith Fuels It All. But another ingredient needs to be added to your journey of continued transformation towards success.

So without further ado. ROLL THE VID.

A Dragon Easter Egg drawn by my partner in life, Davi Lim.

Aloha and Mahalo!!TYPS (To Your Prodigious Success!!)

Tito Kang

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Fear, Faith and Failure

Posted on April 2, 2012 by Kantharith Tito Kang

Aloha Friend,

50 – 50. I talked about it last week. Every decision you make has a 50-50 chance to be the right one or the wrong one. 20 -20 is the hindsight. When all falls into place, only then will you know if you have succeeded or failed. So how come most people continue to make decisions based on the 50% that it might go wrong. Why do we live in this constant state of fearing for the worst? Have we really started with this in our DNA? In looking at a baby learning to walk, being in a sense fearless; I conclude very easily that no, we were not born with this innate sense of fearing the worst. Sure there is a little bit of fear however it is beaten back with the faith that it is possible. One other interesting thing to note is that during that time, the baby’s environment is supportive. That support also is not blind. The supportive environment is built in faith that the baby can and will walk.

If we maintain that same environment, we noticed in most cases transformation, success and achievement is reached. This week, I share a personal event which I have never shared this publicly. One experience I have noted clearly defines how Fears made me miss an opportunity, another shows how Faith allows me to build my ‘dream life’ and how my constant way of failing helps me grow, transform and thoroughly enjoy my Journey.

ROLL THE VID….

Aloha and Mahalo!!TYPS (To Your Prodigious Success!!)Tito Kang

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Failure vs. Failing (Part 2)

Posted on March 26, 2012 by Kantharith Tito Kang

Aloha Friend,

as I have shared with you last week, I have failed many times and I am looking forward to fail some more. What I am avoiding like the plague is to become a failure and that happens when you quit. This week I will share with you my first monumental failure at the start of my corporate career. It was a doozy. As I have said with you last week, I have never considered I have done to be a failure. I have failed most certainly but have never been a failure. I will share with you the tips of how I have come to handled my mistakes. I will also discuss my views on Fear and how it affects Failing. So as usual, let’s ROLL THE VID.

Aloha and Mahalo!!

TYPS (To Your Prodigious Success!!)

Tito Kang

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Loli Nation

TYPS!! To Your Prodigious Success

Tag Archives: attitude

Mind, Body, Kitchen and Books?

Will your Adversity make you BITTER or BETTER?

Why Belief in Abundance is essential to your Success Journey

What did Napoleon say about BURNING DESIRE.

DO YOUR BEST AND MAKE PROGRESS!! – KTK

Some Of The Lessons from my Father

How I maintain A Prodigious Attitude and a message for Mom.

Dreams Are Goals Without a Plan – What I learned with Seth Godin in Phoenix

How I learned that Faith Alone is not Enough.

Fear, Faith and Failure

Failure vs. Failing (Part 2)